Sunday, 25 March 2012

Body Image....

Random Words Flying Around In My Head About Body Image:   

 Eating Disorders
Touchy Subject
True beauty
Why can't we, some women, accept it when men say we are beautiful when clothed & naked
Don't matter about scars, stretchmarks & cellulite
No need for make up 24/7

I am slim but still got stretchmarks, scars and cellulite. I even get nightmare spots and I can't even use make up on my face to hide spots cos of my skin condition. Thankfully I can still use eye make up if needed when I've red eyes from a lack of sleep!! Rarely I use make up, cos I think we all are an example of true beauty with no make up :) But don't get me wrong! I think make up can be useful!! 


Many people don't know I am usually fighting a battle to gain weight or to keep my weight stable, when most people I know are battling to lose weight.
Terrified of losing weight cos it's not attractive, since I am tall I have to be heavier than 9 stone
Being weird about people watching me eating, accuse me of dieting if they see me eating salad or working out at gym. Scared of that.

Looking in the mirror wishing I've got more curves

 I think it's fab that people celebrate curves!! They are fab! But sometime it do make me feel like people are judging me for being slim and make me think it's not attractive. Most days I am proud that I've got a tiny waist, being tall and slim.

 Some people should think before they speak

Where do some of us get our negative body image from?!
Is it cos of airbrushed mags?
Or people commenting?

When guys say words like beautiful, do we believe them? Not usually, but we still nod and say thanks.
I am not saying everyone are like that but most of them, people I know, are polite and say thank you for the lovely comments whilst not believing them.

I may be tall, slim and have lovely long hair. May have dark eyes that shows I am a deep person. Lovely white teeth. It don't always mean I think I am gorgeous deep down.

Most days, I think fuck people I'll wear colourful clothes or show off my body cos most days I am confident, and am full of myself. No care in the world what people think of me. Yet I don't think I am perfect I am not always confident when being intimate with guys thinking they want a better body. But we should accept they are already with us so they don't need a perfect version of us.

Us women always want something we can't have such as bigger or smaller boobs, bums and flatter tummy or blah etc. Why can't we be truly acceptable of ourselves without wanting to changing ourselves?

What is perfect body image? Us accepting our bodies & feeling sexy about our bodies, yeah baby!

Can we stand in front of the mirror naked and say to ourselves we look good!
There's always stories behind each person & picture
No judgement
Be proud of our bodies and what they've been through


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